How to enrich your life

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What do you need to know first is that no one is gonna come into your life and change it.

It basically doesn’t happen. Maybe you heard stories about someone saying “that person changed my life”. It didn’t start like that, it starts with a person who’s changing the mindset and the attitude and being more open to make someone come into his life and give him love. I know it’s so cliche but you are the writer of your own life. No one is gonna write for you. So just imagine the life you want and start to write it, start to put all the pieces together.

And I know people say all the time like so naive to think that like life consists of unicorns, rainbows and flowers,  but just go and make that happen, make your life like a fairytale, like u wanna  be and fill it with happiness, kisses and etc.

And I really-really believe it’s just a lot of shit when people say that our life is a random accident and that you have no control over it. Because I can go out right now with my friend, set up like a picnic with fruits, laugh, we can smile to the strangers. I can create a memory that I will never forget or can continue sitting in the room with my laptop scrolling down Facebook and I will never remember that moment.

That is totally up to me, it’s mine choice, no one else’s.

It’s all about getting that attitude to know that you’re the writer of your own life, you’re in charge of your life.

And yes, you are a victim. Everybody is a victim of a different things, no one has a perfect life, everybody has been through something that is not cool, but don’t treat yourself like a victim and don’t let other people treat you like one. Everything that you have been through is not like something positive, but  it doesn’t define who you are or your life. So, stop complaining about it. Just do your best to have a good time.

We only have one life, why not to make the most of it. Don’t let someone else’s mistake drag you down and move your life. Use that then as a motivation to work harder and succeed, and be happy. You’ve got a million and one thing to be grateful. Write those things down, think about it everyday, focus on that and just forget about all the horrible things that you have been through.

It’s not about sitting and waiting for something to happen. It’s time to take action. Nothing new is gonna  happen in your life if you continue doing the same things every single day. The same job, the same people, the same cloth, the same talks – nothing new is gonna happen.

If you want something new, you have to do something differently. We have to go out of our comfort zone and that doesn’t mean that you have to always be like uncomfortable, it means that eventually your comfort zone is gonna expand, you will grow and become more comfortable with yourself, and love yourself more.

It’s worse to regret something you didn’t do than something you did. Let’s be a ‘YES’ people. It’s not about stupid and dangerous things. It’s about the small moments and just small things – smiles, sunsets, sunrises, fresh air, traveling, flowers, music, you can continue that list. What does enrich your life?

For me, personally, and I think it’s like for a lot of people – the best way to enrich your life is to enrich someone else’s life. Give and share. I hope it makes sense.

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Some words about generosity

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We think of love as founded on admiration for our partner. Instead, a lot of time, we should see love as an act of generosity towards our partner’s less appealing sides.

Although we may look like adults, in many ways we remain children. Like children, we are not always able to diagnose and communicate what is really bothering us. This doesn’t mean our partners should be treated like children, but that their complaints might need to be translated for their deeper meaning. When we can manage it, we should focus on soothing and reassuring rather than hitting back with equal force.

The will to be generous isn’t weakness, it’s charity towards the partner’s frailties, based on a sound recognition that we too will soon enough need them to be benevolent to us.

Anyone we get together with will, over time, require a considerable degree of generosity.

That’s why we call love, with good reason, hard work. It isn’t a sign that love has gone wrong, but that it’s grown into something mature, substantial, and worth valuing.

 

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Choose to be happy

In life, u can choose to be happy, or u can choose to be miserable.

When u decide to be happy, u look at life from a different perspective. U see situations positively instead of negatively, u make more of an effort to get things done and meet your goals, to have good times and good memories instead of sitting around in misery feeling sorry for yourself. If u are feeling dejected and remorseful, now is the time to choose to have a happy life. U don’t have to be miserable, u don’t  have to cause problems for yourself or do things that will make u unhappy. Instead, decide that your life will be fun, entertaining and fulfilled. Choose to leave negativity and misery behind u. Being miserable isn’t benefiting u and it’s probably making those around u miserable too. Choose to step above despair into joy. The choice is yours.

What do u choose? Will u be happy or sad? Choose to be happy and u’ll find that the world opens up to u in ways u couldn’t have even imagined. xx

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